How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful

Description

Qualities of successful rebuilders: 'Getting it' -- The three R's of successful rebuilders -- Guidelines for discovery and disclosure -- Stumbling blocks to severing ties -- Undoing the damage from your lies and rationalizations -- How to change your role from destroyer to healer -- Rebuilding trust -- Responding to your spouse's triggers -- Dealing with your partner's obsessions -- Making amends with your children -- Changing your core character -- But what about my partner's faults? -- Summary.;Most unfaithful partners underestimate the breadth and depth of the fallout after infidelity. If you have had an affair but have regrets and hope to save your marriage, don't let another mistake-ridden day go by without reading this book! Or if you are the injured spouse and your unfaithful partner keeps hurting you with his/her attempts to help you feel better in all the wrong ways, put this manual into your spouse's hands, right away. Find out for yourself what the difference is between those who successfully manage to repair and rebuild their marriages into better-than-ever relationships. This book provides a practical road map for unfaithful spouces who wish to have another chance with their partners. Easy to read, even for the self-help book phobic!