Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia, and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution

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The sexual revolution is unfinished. A sexual double standard between men and women still exists, and society continues to punish bad girls and reward good ones. Until we eliminate good-girl privilege and bad-girl stigma, women will not be fully free to embrace their sexuality. In Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia, and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution Meredith Ralston looks at the common denominators between the #MeToo movement, the myths of rape culture, and the pleasure gap between men and women to reveal the ways that sexually liberated women threaten the patriarchy. Weaving in history, pop culture, philosophy, interviews with sex workers, and personal anecdotes, Ralston shows how women cannot achieve sexual equality until the sexual double standard and good girl/bad girl binary are eliminated and women viewed by society as "whores" are destigmatized. Illustrating how women's sexuality is policed by both men and women, she argues that women must be allowed the same personal autonomy as men: the freedom to make sexual decisions for themselves, to obtain orgasm equality, and to insist on their own sexual pleasure. Dispelling the myth that all sex workers are victims and all clients are violent, Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia, and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution calls out Western society's hypocrisy about sex and shows how stigma and the marginalization of sex workers harms all women. Cover Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia, and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution Title Copyright Dedication Contents Part One The “Good Girl” Problem 1 Rape Culture and Slut-Shaming 2 Sexual Double Standards and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution 3 The Origins of Bad Girl Stigma and Good Girl Privilege Part Two The “Bad Girl” Problem 4 The Money Problem – Is Sex Work Work? 5 The Male Problem – Is Sex Work Violence against Women? 6 The Morality Problem – Is Sex Work Degrading? Part Three Ending Good Girl Privilege and Bad Girl Stigma 7 Decriminalize Sex Work 8 Destigmatize Sex Acknowledgments Notes Bibliography Index