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Strong Couples: Basic Skills that Elicit Connection and Transform Relationships

By Kirsten Winther Murray

Book information

Publisher
Routledge
Year
2019
ISBN
1138057827, 9781138057821
Language
english
Format
PDF
Filesize
6 MB (5860257 bytes)
Edition
1
Pages
226\227
Time added
2021-11-26 23:56:06

Description

Strong Couples: Basic Skills that Elicit Connection and Transform Relationships introduces an intelligent and flexible framework to guide sessions with couples. Informed by grounded theory research, this book provides a foundation for understanding couples’ needs and advancing sessions toward lasting and meaningful change. Drawing on illustrated case examples throughout, Murray demonstrates the value of couples counseling for all by providing an adaptive structure to be applied across diverse contexts and circumstances. With chapters focused on areas of self and relational awareness, genuine engagement, vulnerability and responsiveness, sharing responsibility, and valuing one another, this book will help counselors guide couple discoveries and new relationship experiences. Each chapter is fully integrated with therapeutic techniques to realize this process. Mobilizing the couple’s initiative to explore and develop their relationship, this book will aid counselors and marriage and family therapists alike to implement purposeful steps for helping couples change. Cover Half Title Title Page Copyright Page Dedication Table of Contents Introduction The Case Of Joel And Lisa Part I. Hold 1. Setting the Foundations for Couples Counseling Re-Defining the Client and the Problem Utilize Blocking Protecting the Work Some Final Thoughts on Setting a Foundation Part II. Discover 2. Knowing One’s Self Looking Inward First The Centrality of Rapport Feeling Reflections as Gateways to the Self Recognizing and Stating Intrapersonal Patterns Grounding in the Relationship Some Final Thoughts on Knowing One’s Self 3. Histories and Contexts of Relating: Understanding Family Patterns and Stages Identifying Interpersonal Patterns Some Final Thoughts on History and Context Part III. Change 4. Genuine and Authentic Engagement Recognizing Incongruence Establishing Genuine and Authentic Expressions of Self Connection After Congruence Some Final Thoughts on Genuine and Authentic Engagement 5. Responsiveness and Vulnerability Empathic Responding Accepting Influence Revealing Vulnerability Toward Resolution Some Final Thoughts on Responsiveness and Vulnerability 6. Sharing Responsibility and Modeling Transformation Reframing Conflict Sharing Responsibility Evaluating Expectations for Change Adjusting Behavior for Process Change (AKA How to Address Unsolvable Conflict) Adjusting Behavior for Resolution (AKA How to Address Situational Problems) Modeling Transformation Some Final Thoughts on Sharing Responsibility and Modeling Transformation 7. Valuing One Another and the Relationship Recognizing Strengths Practicing Rituals Expressing Pride Sustaining Connection through Difficulty Some Final Thoughts on Valuing One Another and the Relationship Part IV. Integrate 8. Considerations for Application Embracing Circularity The Benefits (and Shortcomings) of an Integrative Model The Necessity of Personal Work Core Assumptions Final Thoughts References Index

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