Women and Kink: Relationships, Reasons, and Stories
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Based on original research from nearly 1,600 women from the kink community, this book takes you on a journey into the motivations, meanings, and benefits of kink, in these women’s own words. Women and Kink presents a diverse range of personal and intimate stories about life, love, relationships, kink, sex, self-discovery, growth, resilience, community, and more. The book offers insight into the breadth of the kink community, with chapters discussing different aspects of kink and forms of engagement, both individually and within relationships. Filled throughout with personal vignettes and examples, the authors provide commentary, reflection questions, and thought-provoking considerations to readers who are looking to explore a new area of their life. By exploring personal stories of love, alternative sexualities, and reasons for participating in the "unconventional," the book supports and empowers each reader to build a relationship and life that best suits their needs. It is also an illuminating resource for sex therapists, counselors, and other mental health professionals interested in developing a kink-affirmative practice. Cover Endorsement Page Half Title Title Page Copyright Page Dedication Table of Contents Authors Acknowledgments Chapter 1 Introduction The Research Background Methods Results Comments about Aspects of and Engagement with Kink Comments about Relationship Status Comments about Reasons for Participating Comments about Stories Discussion Definitions Points of Interest Notes Chapter 2 Aspects of Kink Kink and Sex Kink and Pain Kink and the Mind Kink and Spirituality Kink and Community Kink and Safety Kink and Consent Kink and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism Kink and Role Play Kink and Fetish Kink and Money What Does This Mean? Notes Chapter 3 Engagement with Kink Kink as (Mostly) Fantasy New to Kink Kink as Private I’m Not Kinky! Kink is beyond Novelty Self-Identity Includes Kink Kink over Time What Does This Mean? Chapter 4 Relationship Status Relationships without Formal Commitments Power-Dynamic Relationships Non-Monogamy: Relationships with More Than One Partner On the Topic of Marriage Additional Chosen Families What Does This Mean? Chapter 5 Reasons for Participating in Kink Personal Reasons Relational Reasons Sexual Reasons What Does This Mean? Chapter 6 Stories Story #1 Story #2 Story #3 Story #4 Story #5 Story #6 Story #7 Story #8 Story #9 Story #10 What Does It All Mean? Chapter 7 Conclusion The Problem with Labels The Joys with Research Sample Size Final Thoughts Note Appendix A: The Survey Appendix B: Additional Sensual, Erotic, andSexual Behaviors Appendix C: Exhibitionistic Behaviors Appendix D: Additional Forms of Erotica Appendix E: Additional Role-Play Scenarios Appendix F: Additional Fetishes Resources References Index
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