The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure

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Prologue PART I: Meet the Bonobos Finding My Prime Mate The Nature of Sex… and Love The Chivers Effect AOL Censors Bonobos Noble and Kinky Chapter 3: Welcome to Bonoboville Aristocratic Apes Jamming with Kanzi The Bonobo Funnies Chapter 4: Bonobo Sexualis Love Hormone Highs Chapter 5: Erotic Politics and Bonobo Economics Bonobo Handshakes & Human Testimony Bonobo Sex Therapy Bonobo Gals Pick Up the Check Resolving Conflict with Sex Common Chimps Sometimes Kill Each Other No Bonobo Murders or Wars Chapter 7: The Bonobo Mystique Anatomist Tiffs & African Wars Sex Makes You Smarter Hollywood Defames Bonobos Chapter 8: Food, Sex & Culture Bonobos vs. Chimps: Organic Buffet vs. Bullet-Riddled McDonald's Baboons Go Bonobos Bonobo Sisterhood Bonobo Boyishness & the Fountain of Youth MILFs Rule Bonoboville Chapter 10: Hoka-Hoka: The Bonobo Tango Hoka-Hoka Lubricates Life ``Bonobo-Bashing in the New Yorker'' Chapter 11: Sperm Wars: The Super Bowl of Sex Bonobos Have Balls Sperm Competition Illuminates ``The Lifestyle'' Make Sperm Wars, Not Real Wars! A Thunderclap of Bonobo-Human Connection A Profound Interspecies Event (PIE) Is War Wired Into Our Genes? Are We Killer Apes? Being ``Humane'' Is Actually Very Bonobo My King Kong Are You In a State of Anthropodenial? Humans Swing Too Are Women More Monogamous Than Men? Polyamory & Designer Relationships Bisexuality Keeps the Peace in Bonoboville Bonobo BDSM Human Perversion or Sexual Diversity? My Monogamish Boho-Bonobo Marriage Bonobos Are Single But with Lots of Company Chapter 15: Release Your Inner Bonobo The Bonobo Liberation Challenge The Unexpected Aphrodisiac of Shame Go Bonobos! Real 40-Year Old Virgin Gets Laid & Finds Love (In That Order) Human Bonobovilles Must Be Adults Only ``Bonobos Hold the Key to a World without War'' PART II: The 12 Steps to Releasing Your Inner Bonobo A Different Kind of ``12-Step Program'' Seeing Bonobos May Arouse Deep Feelings What If Watching Bonobo Sex Creeps You Out? Relax, Reboot, Press PLAY Breathe in a Rainbow Have You Forgotten How to Play? Play at Work Erotic Theater of the Mind Bonobo Medibation Rape & Other Disturbing Fantasies Puritans, Like Poachers, Shoot to Kill Your Inner Bonobo Unleash the Erotic Animal Within Romp & Wrestle or Cuddle & Groom The Ideal is The Enemy of The Real Empathize as You Fantasize ``She's Everything I Want! What's Wrong with Me?'' Eroplay, Chero & the Art of the Tease Trust Kills Lust Can a Chimp Be a ``Porn Addict''? The Power to Give Pleasure Why Are We So Emo About Eating? The Oral Sex Diet Don't Let the Kids Eat Up Your Holidays The Bonobo Rainforest Diet Bonoboville Communion Prozac, Sex and Love Step 6: Explore the ``Opposite'' Sex Within You. The Sexes Aren't Really ``Opposite'' Bonobo Boys Aren't Brutes & the Gals Aren't Pushovers Sexual Tupperware & the Plastic Fantastic Female Take a Bonobo Moment Kegel Yoga to Holy Water What Makes You Thrive? Do the Hoka-Hoka Did You Marry the Wrong Woman? Does Your Soft Side Make You Hard? Male Backlash & Female Whiplash Mama Mia Nice Guys Sometimes Win Bonobo Alchemy: Turn Anger into Desire Anger Management, Bonobo Style Can Jealousy Be an Aphrodisiac? The Shape of Things to Cum Why Men Love ``Sluts'' Jealousy Edgeplay Pleasure Is the Root of All Good You Can Have Your Sex & Eat It Too Were America's Founding Fathers Ethical Hedonists? The Power of Negative Thinking What Does ``Ethical Hedonism'' Mean to You? Ethical BDSM Eco-Sexual Ethics The Best Laid Plans May Not Get You Laid the Way You Planned Falling in Love Makes You Go Bonobos Without Even Trying! Maximize Your Erotic Capital How About a Friendly Game of Stranger? Casual Hookups & Friends-with-Benefits ``I Was Just Being Bonobo-Friendly, Your Honor'' Time for a Different Party! ``Saturday Night Group Therapy'' No Couple is an Island Party Like a Bonobo Revolutionary Bonobovilles from Iran to LA Witness & Be Witnessed Porn Star Bonobovilles Beware of False Bonobovilles! Stealth, Science & Love Songs of Bonoboville Love the Earth You Make Love On Step 11: Swing through Life. The World is Our Real Estate Hot Date: Bridge-Climbing with the Suicide Club Sex Heals a Billion Times More Than It Kills ``Do Not Put Anything in Your Vagina'' Bonobo Yoga Gets You Ready to Swing ``Heart of Darkness'' BCI & the Bonobo Peace Forest Claudine André: Saint Joan of the Bonobos If We Lose the Bonobos, We Lose Part of Ourselves A Cause That's Right and Sexy Help the Bonobos & They Will Reciprocate PHOTO GALLERY Epilogue: Go Forth and Go Bonobos Appendix A: Where You Can Help Appendix B: Where You Can See Bonobos around the World Bibliography Acknowledgements